So for someone to single-handedly annoy me, ah, it is a great feat which I do not commend. One thing that really, really frustrates me is when people misconstrue their value in my life and demand privileges "above their pay grade" as the Americans say. I may not be Michelle Obama but I believe I have a right to self importance, no matter how minute it is. So if you don't make the upper part of my priority list I think that is my decision and not yours. Who are you to decide your position in my life?
Please and please, respect yourself, when your value in a person's life appreciates, you will know. Till then, let "patience is a virtue" be your mantra.